Tonto Dikeh: ‘If We Dip Out every time Someone Hurts Us… Well then We’d All Be Alone’

Tonto Dikeh recently shared a photo of herself on Instagram and this was what she wrote on it:

“When you are around people who challenge your thoughts and who you are ,remain calm and maintain your light.You don’t have to dip out on the people you are supposed to care about because you are told you deserve better.People have “off days”. Everyone acts and responds

differently .If we dip out every time someone hurts us,or doesn’t behave the way we ideally want in our heads,well then we’d all be alone.Everyone has their Own problems and demons .Some will test your patient more than others but that doesn’t mean to give up on them .They need help .They need to be shown LOVE feel free to distance yourself when you have to so that you don’t get drained .Manage self -control enough to not let yourself become a victim ,but don’t forget to be a source of happiness for whoever you’re around ,no matter how they act toward you .Not everyone is going to think and operate the way you do.Your morals might not match theirs ,but that does not make them a bad person ,or you any better .Don’t dampen who you are due to the people you’re around. Keep shining regardless if they understand it or not ,because in the end light will always glow through darkness “

It is now that for her, it is no longer stranger talking about her relationship with ‘Mr. X’ on Her followers have been trying to figure out if she is talking about friends or her relationship.

What do you think.

3/26/2015